Moreover, if I may ask why do you think sex between married lovers especially ministers of God diminishes sex, it does not it rather increases it.  ‘Well he continued’, he said ‘my wife just told me recently that she has a call of God upon her life and that her body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and sex with him does not only diminishes the anointing but also defiles her body.  Moreover, anything that would defile her body must be destroyed so sex for the two of them should be on hold until heaven says otherwise’.

Because I have a mandate to make sure unity is enacted in homes I quickly ran to the aid of that home, as I perceives in my spirit man that if positive help is not rendered on time, that union, marriage and home would soon be wipe off by the devil. When Satan wants to destroyed and man or woman of God he Zero in into the marriage. He is always looking for opportunity to disintegrate the unity between the married spouses especially through the instrument of sex.

I booked an appointment with his wife, because of the urgency in the speech of her husband I quickly went into action. ‘Madam did you say your body is the temple of God and your husband should go on sabbatical leave of absence until you hear from heaven to have sex with him, and did you also say sex with him diminishes your anointing?’ She said ‘Yes’  I said well you are right when you said your body is the temple of the holy spirit but you were wrong when you forbid him to worship in the temple because the only thing that is done in the temple is constant worship so let your husband come in and worship at will. In-fact the ‘two-leave gates’ of the temple is always open so your two legs should be forever spread wide open for your husband 24/7.

 Sex with your husband does not decrease your anointing it rather increase it. Reason been that sex came from God and God gave the married couple the gift of sex to solidify their union the more. You are the only one divinely appointed by God to sexually satisfy your husband. Sex is the only duty that no one else can or should perform for your husband but you. Whenever you place unrealistic, demonic embargo on your sex life, infidelity, unfaithfulness, adultery and total collapse of the union is inevitable. Whatever name you give it sex outside marriage is a major dent to the union, to the family, to the destiny of the children, to the body of Christ and to our Christian race, at large.

"Madam did you say your body is the temple of God and your husband should go on sabbatical leave of absence until you hear from heaven to have sex with him, and did you also say sex with him diminishes your anointing?’ She said ‘Yes’  I said "well you are right when you said your body is the temple of the holy spirit but you were wrong when you forbid him to worship in the temple because the only thing that is done in the temple is constant worship so let your husband come in and worship at will."

So what do I really mean by the phrase ‘sex from the pulpit’. Follow me careful. Sex from the pulpit is all about the sexual relationship between the minister of God and his wife, the minister of God and her husband. Sex between the man and woman of God should not only be holly pure but erotic, tantalizing, gratifying and full of pleasantries. The minster sex life must not be boring, it must not be lifeless it must be hot enticing, tormenting, exciting, teasing, alluring and provoking, in so much that the sex cup on the man and the woman of God must be fully filled at home before he or she steps outside. When the sex cup is fully filled at home there would not be any space left for a ‘topping up’.

Ministers of God must wise up, this is the major area ‘the generals’ are falling and failing wisdom demands that e should fill up all loopholes. There is a need for us to have a correct mind set towards sex between a servant of God and his or her spouse, because the important aspect is the matter of the heart. When a man and woman of God have a faulty mindset about sex their ministry and marriage goes down the drain faster than expected. Minister needs to split open ‘old women fables’ face reality live a sexually fulfilling life and give healthy sex talk to their congregation.

Servant s of God must not see and treat sex as a forbidden fruit no! Sex came from God, Sex was Gods’ idea, sex and God are good tenants they live together in harmony and the rhythm is a sweet melody. We need to wake up and stop calling what God has sanctified as unholy. Until l come your way next time keep your sex bed hot spicy and erotic God does not back you and cover his face while you are making love to your spouse and ask you to hasten up because he is a holy God no! He rather watches you both with all enthusiasm and gives you a kudos!!!.  

Split opens the myth-:
What is your take on Marathon fast.
This is the minister question and answer angle please forward all your questions to split open the myth and the Holy Spirit would give us a moth and a wisdom that the enemy would not be able to gainsay, however, we have one for the day.

Hello Funmi,
My husband is always going from the pulpit to the mountain to seek God’s face for the work of the ministry, sometimes he fast for days unending, in such times I am sexually served and when I venture to ask him for sex he see me a s the Delilah send to destroy him. When should we have sex during fasting, I don’t want to defile my matrimonial bed?
Worried pastor Mrs.

First fasting should be done when there is a mutual agreement no spouse can take off fasting without first consenting with his or her spouse. There must be s mutual agreement concerning the fast. Secondly, when a fast is ‘broken’ by six pm any other activities can take place between the couples. A marathon fast that goes for days must be well agreed on and the person fasting must put the other fellow into consideration. The sexual instinct in married couples is inbuilt by God and the instinct like every other instinct always fine a medium of expression and such medium must be created by couples.