Help me,

I am troubled in my matrimonial home by an Ondo girl.

At this point, let me thank God that my husband's mum is dead because i know what i could be going through right now if she were alive.
I have gone to... where else now? But honestly, I have not gone to any fetish place. And i will not. Six years on, my husband 'seems' not bothered that i have no child for him yet. He consoles me and tells me that he is positive that i will have children upon children. We stay together long hours. He does not seem to bother and he seems to be more worried that i am worried about the situation.

But not so with his brothers and sisters. Though they don't look hostile to me but i know deep down in me that they are not comfortable because they often look me one-kin. When they come to us, they play with me, joke with me, hug and laugh with me. But I can read it in their eyes that all is not well. My suspicion was confirmed one day when i heard their eldest sister said, "Its painful mama is dead." I heard her say so to my husband while i was at the kitchen. When i came out of the kitchen, they kept quiet and the countenance of my husband was troubled. I know my husband. I am extra-sensitive to his body language. I knew they were discussing me, and i could knit together what "Its painful Mama is dead" meant.

After four unusual visits by his siblings, my husband is now traveling more frequently than before with them to Ondo, under one guise or the other. While away at weekends, he calls me every minute, asking me all sorts of luvy luvy questions, telling me what he is eating, palm wine he is drinking, etc. When he comes back home, he is still the most loving, most assuring, most compassionate husband.

But preacher, one day at church, when one of my usher friends asked after him, I said he has travelled with his family to Ondo. The female Usher said "Ah!, this regular visits Ondo. Se no be say dem wan go give am Ondo girl? Be careful o." That moment i almost collapsed. My legs wobbled. I quickly looked for a Chair. It's not that i have not thought of that but I have never given it a serious consideration. I have always loved and believed him.

Now, people say the voice of the people is the vice of God. Preacher, the heart of man is deep. THE HEART OF MAN IS DEEP. Daily he still assures me, but these days, i am not assured again. He speaks to me but i don't hear him. In spite of all his luvy luvy, my woman instinct is telling me that its a facade. That something is happening since his siblings started coming and he travels with them. Oh, i feel something is going wrong. Please believe me something is going wrong.

People say Ondo girls are light in complexion. Anytime i see light complexion women, I see Ondo girls snatching my husband. I am now at war with a girl i don't know. My blood pressure is galloping. I hope i am not going crazy? My husband is now complaining that i am moody. Not cheerful. Help me with prayers against this Ondo girl.

Now, my prayer is any Ondo girl who tries to break my home, may God..... (withheld-Editor) Am i am still sane. I hope so.

Joy, Kaduna.


Response from Pastor Deola Ojo.