A: All secular research on religious women has maintained that reli­gious, married women have the great­est level of sexual satisfaction of all women. So most of you guys are really Igreat lovers. Keep up the good work!

However, let's talk about orgasm frequency for women. Women are very, very different from men con­cerning orgasms.

Some women want at least one orgasm, preferably multiple ones, when they have sex. Some women are content with having an orgasm once a week to once every few months.

During my counseling sessions with couples, some wives have said they haven't had an orgasm for years-but they are content with that.

Because women are much more complex than men about orgasms, you could be a great lover but your wife still might not desire frequent orgasms. So don't hang your sexual self -esteem on her orgasms. She might have major control issues stemming from stress or a deep emotional event from her past, such as sexual abuse or an abortion. Or it could be that she honestly just doesn't need or want orgasms as often as you do.

Believe her when she tells you what her desires are and be respon­sive to her when she does want to go for it.


by Dr. Doug Weiss
info@drdougweiss.com