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Bimbo Odukoya Teachings:
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Someone more attractive
Human Nature:
Bola Akin-John: Sexual pressures on men
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It is a fact of life that men are under intense pressure today. The world of today is exerting tremendous pressure on every male. Unfortunately, most men are incapable of handling these pressures and many have crumbled and are crumbling under these pressures from society, home, parents, friends and host of darkness.

More than anything else, sexual pressure is the most dominant destroyer of men today. The world today has become a sex saturated world. Sex is used to sell and promote every item and product. The literature, video, fashion and movie world glorifies sex to extreme proportions. At every corner and turn, you see objects and emphasis on sex being flagrantly displayed. Ladies and women dress scantily, revealing vital organs of the body. All these bring unbearable pressure on men.

At every corner and turn, you see objects and emphasis on sex being flagrantly displayed. Ladies and women dress scantily, revealing vital organs of the body. All these bring unbearable pressure on men.

It is a known fact that man is affected by what he sees. The more reason everything is being done to catch men's attention. And several men have succumbed to these evil and corrupt pressures today. Pre-marital sex among youths is rampant and growing to alarming proportions today. Fornication, adultery, flings and affairs by married men, immoral dealings and masturbation are the obvious signs of men crumbling under the weight of these pressure today. Man, how are you handling this pressure? Be you a pastor, prophet, accountant, engineer or computer operator, how are you grappling with this sexual pressure today?

MEN AND LUST
Too many men are struggling with lust in their hearts today. Lust is riotous sexual imagination that results in charged body that leads you to desire anything in skirt. It is the high urge for sex that makes men to partronise prostitutes, sleep with their maids, rape young girls and commit sexual pervasion. Lust makes men to watch pornography, peep at people while taking their bath and secretly enjoying the revealing body contours of a woman.

In other instances, lust has made some shy men to practice masturbation, homosexualism and oral sex, using dolls and pillows as sexual objects. Some men have been raped by women and some have slept with demonised ladies that destroy and jeopardized their future. Some lustful men even rape their wives!

Too many men are secretly battling with this type of lust today. Though they hate to admit it, but many young men are lustful and full of lust in their hearts and it is driving them crazy. Some 17, 18 years old men are neck-deep in this trouble.

Well, the statistics about every 10 men below speak volumes.

You can now see the tremendous trouble that men have found themselves in this area. Every real man must know how to handle sexual pressure. Every real man must face the issue of sex in his life and deal with it squarely, because if you don't do, your undisciplined sexual life can be the very avenue for your destruction.

Today, there is the rampaging epidemic of HIV/ AIDS. So many have gone to their untimely grave because they could not control their libido. Others have contacted curse, poverty, failure, bad-luck as a result of their sexual escapades. Some believe it is fun. But it is not. The God who created sex has also told us how to go about it in a godly, edifying and wonderful way. As a youth, you cannot allow lust and high body tension at the sight of a beautiful girl to ruin you and your future. As a man, you cannot allow that round of sex with your maid, secretary or call girl to ruin you and all you have laboured for all these years.

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