-Keeping malice

-Rejecting food because you are angry with your wife- this is barbaric.

-Abusing each other

-Reporting to a third party

-Sexual denial, having no interest in sex

-Hatred and lovelessness

-Sexual unfaithfulness

-Failure to provide for the family

-Night crawling

-Nagging and murmuring

-Failure to apologise when you are wrong

-Failure to pray together with your spouse

-Failure to forgive your spouse

-Embarrassing your spouse openly

-Comparing your spouse with others

-Loving your siblings, parents and children more than your spouse

-Failure to go for counseling when your marriage is in trouble

-Failure to be committed to one's marriage

-Thinking of divorce

-Threatening your spouse with divorce and separation

-Complaining about everything

-Using abusive words and making hurting remarks

- Shouting during discussions.

- - Be closer to your friends, siblings or relatives more than your spouse

-Arguments which nobody is ready to lose

-Taking all credit for any good thing that happens, not giving any to one's partner

-Being selfish and self centered

-Allowing friends and family members to direct the affairs of your house.

- Not accepting blame for any mistake

-Failure to apologise or say ‘‘I am sorry''

-Majoring in the mistakes of your spouse, deemphasizing his or her good deeds

-Laziness and failure to work

- Competing with your spouse at home.

-Talking about your ‘‘ex'' often (ex- boyfriend, ex- girlfriend)

-Unfriendly and uncaring attitude

-Wife battering

-Stinginess, loving to receive without giving out.

-Drunkenness and partying

-Treating one's spouse as a kid and without respect

- Failure to communicate

-Taking vengeance for every offence, refusing to reconcile

-Mismanagement of money

- Referring to old hurts often

-Allowing anger, bitterness and resentment to take over one's life.