(2) Respect Him.
Eph. 5:33. When a man knows that you respect him, he will listen to you and accept your correction most especially if it is presented respectfully. The fear of many men is that their wives want to take over the authority of the home from them, hence, they become difficult, rigid and stubborn to their wives. If you respect him, he will come down to your level.
(3) Be Attractive.
If he doesn't like the way you dress, he will not listen to you when you address him. Dress neatly, be modem, be moderate, be attractive, look like a lover girl.
(4) Give him your attention and affection.
Never allow career, and motherhood take you away from your man. Create time for him, create interest in him, show him you love and care, let him know he is welcome, let him know you are on his side.
(5) Pray for Him.
Talk to God about him, tell God how you feel, tell God to open his ears to your discussion, tell God to make you a woman of influence and teach you what to do to win the heart of your husband. Don't forget to destroy every stronghold between yourself and your husband and that He should separate your man from bad friends.
(6) Improve Yourself.
If he discover that you are out of tune with current issues, lack understanding and always make irrelevant contributions, he will avoid talking to you. Develop yourself. Improve, get to know new things, make intelligent contributions at home.
(7) Create Interest In His Interest.
His career, hobbies, likes and pleasure should interest you, discuss with him at his own level. Celebrate his success wildly, wear his "shoes" in time of failure, motivate and encourage him. Be his partner in every area of life, whatever interest him should interest you.
(8) Obey him, submit to him.
If you are fond of obeying him, he will likely listen to you when you talk, no man can resist a submissive wife, no husband can withstand a virtuous woman. Don't turn your home to a battlefield, avoid argument like a plaque, be ready to lose argument with joy and support whatever he finally decides to do and if he fails, never say "I told you".
(9) Let Him Take the Glory.
If your husband listen to your advice and it turn out to be a successful venture, never claim the glory, but give the glory to your husband as the head of the family. If you do, he will listen to your advice any other day, knowing fully well that you will not assert the glory to yourself.
(10) Meet His Needs:
Meet his needs physically, emotionally, financially and sexually love him, serve him, celebrate him. Live a husband focused life.
