Hello counselor,
I had my first child in secondary school for this crazy man. After a lot of disputations, i gave birth to a daughter, his carbon copy. Nobody, including his mother could say no again. Before I knew it, he started coming again and in less than a year, I was pregnant again and had a baby boy. In all these, I had thought we would get married unknown to me that three other women had had children for him. My mum drove me out and I ran to Lagos where I began to live from one place to the other with two children.
I have raised the children now, one out of secondary school the second still there. I managed by selling bread by the road side. My Church had assisted me as my pastor paid their school fees until recently that a Church member took the boy to their house and started training him.
I am 35 years old and I need to continue my life from the point of destruction I put myself. I have been living alone for over 10 years. Now, I want to live like a complete woman. I was once blind but now I can see.
I was lucky when a friend introduced a pastor to me, he has a young Church around Iyana Oworo. When he came to me, I told him about my life and children. He said he knew all these and he wants me all the same and I jumped at it.
But someone cautioned me to be careful. I went to my pastor who told me no way. I attend Church of God Mission. (Idahosa's Church) Again, someone took me to a cele prophet who also said no way.
At least the man is also a pastor. In his Church people talk of signs and wonders. I want to live like a complete woman. This pastor is still available for me, he calls me daily.
I need another opinion. When I told my younger sister, she said there is a page on the internet where people assist with advice. So I told her to help me ask you. As a woman, I know you know how I feel. Help ma. How do I know the will of God for me on this matter?
Lady Bee,
Okokomaiko,
Lagos.
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